AEC (Different Types Of Parenting)

PERSONAL THOUGHTS

  • Authoritarian - High Expectations, Emotionally Distant, Punish severely
  • Authoritative - Clear Standards, Flexible
  • Uninvolved - Uninterested, Absent, Neglectful
  • Permissive - Lenient, Low Expectations


Parents have various methods of shaping their children. Parents play a huge role in their children's behaviour. Hence, my teacher discuss the topic of different parenting style to us. After listening to some of my classmates stories about their parents, it made me realise that all of us are indeed brought up differently and we all have different characteristic.

How was I brought up?

⁠⁠⁠I was raised by authoritarian parents.My mum often caned me when I was younger. When i did badly in school exams, she would cane me. When I did not do which she told me to do, she would cane me as well. I also often got slapped by her. I was so used to her punishments method that I dont mind being punish anymore. Yes, i have very low self-esteem and low independence when I was young. But over the years, i have gain more self-esteem and be more dependent as I made many friends in school.

 I STILL LOVE MY PARENTS!!

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